.socialmedia · Chapter 03 of 9 · The handle problem

A handle is not property. It is a tenancy.

Ask most people online where their audience lives and they will name a platform. Ask them what they own, and the answer gets uncomfortable. A handle is granted at will, revocable at will, and non-portable by design.

  • You cannot take your name with you. The same person is @jdupont on one network, @j_dupont on another, @jeandupont.official on a third, and nothing at all on the fourth because someone else got there first.
  • You cannot take your audience with you. Every follower relationship is an entry in someone else's database. When a platform declines, changes its algorithm, changes its rules, or changes hands, that relationship does not travel.
  • You cannot prove you are you. Verification has become something platforms sell, revoke, and redefine. Impersonation remains trivially easy.
  • You have no address. You have a collection of profile URLs on domains you do not control, held together in practice by a link-in-bio page hosted on yet another domain you do not control.
@jdupont@j_dupont@jeandupont.off@jean.dupont@dupontjean@jeand_@therealjdupontjeandupont.socialmediaRENTED · 7 landlordsOWNED · 1 address
One person · seven rented handles · one owned address

The domain name system solved this problem for the web in the 1990s and has been quietly reliable ever since. A domain is the only identifier on the internet an individual can actually hold: registered in your name, renewable on your terms, movable between providers, and independent of any single application. It is the closest thing the network has to a deed. What has been missing is not the technology — it is a namespace that says, plainly and in the language people already use, what the thing is for.